Ewe, ooninawa kunye noodadewabo abazalani kwaphela, ngoko ayinakugqalwa njengento embi okanye engafanelekanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umfana omdala kunye nentombazana, ngaphandle kwamaqabane aqhelekileyo ngokwesondo kwaye phantse yonke imihla ejikeleze enye kwenye, ngequbuliso waziva enomdla kwinqanaba lezesondo omnye komnye. Ukuqwalasela ukuba intombazana iyayithanda (umfana ngoko akukho mbuzo), ndicinga ukuba baya kuqhubeka beqhuba olu hlobo lwento ngamaxesha.
Usoloko wathi umzimba onamanzi kunye nomfazi othanda ukuzonwabisa unokusibekela ibhinqa eliselula ngokwesini sesibheno! Kwaye yintoni-umzimba osebenzayo kwaye uyazi ukuba ufuna ntoni emadodeni. Kwangaxeshanye iyayazi indlela yokwanelisa iintswelo zayo nayiphi na indoda. Ngokombono wam aba bafazi bafanelekile ngesondo!