Intshontsho lineminyaka eyi-18, kodwa lifuna ukufaka i-IUD. Ugqirha uchaza ukuba angayenza kuphela kumantombazana ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-21. Kodwa ukuzingisa kwesigulane kusaphumelela. Ugqirha wabafazi wambonisa indlela ekhuselekileyo yokuba neentlobano zesini. Ngoku unokwabelana ngesondo empundwini - ngaphandle kokhuselo.
Ewe, ukugweba ngendlela yonke into eyenzekayo, intombazana iphupha ixesha elide ngesondo esinjalo kwaye ndicinga ukuba akukho nto yagqiba ukuhlawula ngale ndlela, kukho ukungabikho kokwaneliseka ngokwesini okanye amava asele ekhona. Ngokubanzi, uyamgxotha ngokugqibeleleyo, uyayithanda ngokwenene, ukugweba ngokububula kunye nokububula, kwaye ixesha ligqithise konke ukulindela kwakhe, mhlawumbi uya kubonakala ebhedini yakhe ngaphezu kweyodwa.
Nam ndingathanda umntu onjalo, ndiyamrhalela.